The Call....

i made a call to him......... hey hey wait wait.. dun be mistaken... i made this call becos of wat raine said abt him when she called him regarding GPS stuffs.... She was telling me tat his attitude was very bad, the way he talked like "shao yeh" and keep talked loudly to her, like rude rude la... actually when i heard tat in my mind i was thinking maybe he is stress... well... is not i am trying to help him but here and there i do talked to him on MSN then he did told me tat he got lot of stuffs to do recently... so somehow i felt tat his rudeness is connected wif his recent stress... but i didn't tell raine tat cos at that moment she was quite angry... so if i really tell her, she confirm plus guarantee chop chop will said i side him... so well is better to keep quiet and find out the truth in some sense... so i made this call...

Starting i called him.... i start off wif a quite lame sentence la...

Me: hello, agnes here, still remember me ma?" haha....

He: "of cos la, aiyo why said until like tat"...

haha at tat moment i tend to relax abit...

then i asked him, Me: "Busy now ma?"

He: "now studying... why lei?"

In my mind i was like ok should i get to the topic or should i still go on wif the random asking... so i...

Me: "Am i disturbing u ma?"

He: "ok la not really.. why lei?"

This is the 2nd time he asked me "why lei" liao.. i think i better dun keep go round round....

Me: "u and raine ok ma?"

He laughed, He: "haha we are ok ah, wat wrong?"

Me: "erm i heard tat tat time she called u over the phone?"

He: "Ya, she called me regarding the purchasing of GPS. why u asked we ok ma?"

Me:"well to be franked, she abit unhappy wif the way u talked to her...u talked to her very loudly huh?

He: "aiya, she always so sensitive de, i never talked to her until like tat lo.... somemore i talked to her, she will keep on saying can u dun talk so loud ma.. where got..."

Me: "U these few days very stress is it? sch work alot?"

He: "ok ok ah" (but his tone changes abit)

Me:"So u still work and study at the same time la?"

He:"Ya, when i no sch then i will work lo... somemore now also got project going on... a weekly based thingy"

Me: "so i guess u have to sarcrifice ur weekend for ur project too la?"

He: "ya la, no choice lo"

Me: "well is it becos u stress then maybe u talked tend to be louder abit without u noticing?"

He: " i talked is like tat de ma all along... i talked to all my frens like tat..."

Me: "i get wat u mean la, u are jus being urself, i get it... all ur frens are guys ah not girls..."

He jus give a short laughed, so i continue..

Me: "not i said what la... i admit sometime raine tend to be sensitive and tend to argue back la.. but if u talked to a girl also dun talk so loud la... raine still a girl ma.. if a guy like tat talked to her, she will not be happy de ah.. right?"

He: "Um"

Me: "hee u talked so loud to girl, wait u scared away all the girls how?"

He laughed...

Me: "so next time try to talk in a softer tone la.. like tat also won't let pple mistaken la..."

He:"Um"

suddenly his tone so diff... i dunno how to describe but somehow his tone is quite soft... (tired?)

He: "no wonder all my frens talked to their gf in such a soft manner, when i hear i always thinking to myself why they talked like tat"

Me: "Ya, now u know why le la... so next time when time to loud then loud lo, dun keep loud until pple thot u scold her.... well but for girls ah, we talked to guys in our normal tone like how we talked to girls... but one thing diff is tat we are very impatient towards guys... haha.. so tat explain why raine so easily unhappy wif u...."

He:"well i dun see it in ur case ah"

Well at tat moment i felt quite honoured yo.... hahaha!!

Me: Ha me is when u keep push me to my limits then i will be impatient if not i am fine most of the time"

He: "i see"

So i tend to joke around next...

Me: "haha now raine also abit like xiao nui ren sometime... haha u dun see her always strong strong ah.. she sometime will tend to look forwards\ in having a bf ah... her xiao nui ren is getting stronger compare to last time"

He: "haha can sense in some sense hoh"

so i started asking him his sch work... then he told me he got lot of exam coming up, this and tat... well i guess tat really can explain why he behave like tat on the phone wif raine... in the end guess wat he said?

He: "i think when i stress i tend to be impatient.."

Me: "is ok ah, everyone tend to be like tat.... i understand" (BINGO i guess correctly le)

Me: "so u keep study got take a break here and there ma? like go out wif family?"

He: " ya i did" now his tone even softer, sound like a lamb?! guess he really felt a bit wore out ba)

Me: "tat good dun over stress urself ya..."

He: "ya"

Then i heard he mumbled some words.. he started studying.. haha!

Me:"u wan go study ma?"

He: "i now studying ah"

Me: "u can muti-task?"

He: "trying my best..."

Me: "haha knew it... guys cannot muti-task de lo....! haha!so u better go concentrate...."

He: "ok, other day then chat ba"

So we both said "bye" and hung up the phone... well i must said the conversation is not tat bad... at least he never behave headstrong.. willing to listen.... and get wat i meant.... he talked also never talked to me loudly or behaving shao yeh.. good good... hope i never add additional stress to him.. i think i never la... haha!!!

But i dunno why, when raine told me tat he like tat like tat... he shao yeh this and tat... in my mind, i know he is not.... i dunno how come i will think this way.... i jus know? maybe there is this few times went out wif him, and the way he talked to me abt himself... i jus can sense it... he said things out but he dun meant it... and this is one thing raine always dun get it in some sense which i dun wan to argue wif her, jus leave it like tat... towards him, i dunno is a my intuition, sixth sense or wat... He did told me like last week on MSN tat he got lot of stuffs to do... so maybe becos of tat i knew it is stress le ba... one way to another...

I jus know...... (weird huh?)